Finding OK will return July 2025! Join Patreon for early access to episodes!

Just Hecate Episodes

No guest! Only Hecate!
Dec. 31, 2020

The Importance of Awe

The experience of awe is a rarely discussed but incredibly powerful part of growth and healing. In this episode I discuss the benefits of awe, I torture some metaphors, give you some ideas of how to seek out awe in your daily...

Listen to the Episode
Dec. 2, 2020

Rich Inner Worlds

In this episode I discuss the importance of creating and nurturing a rich inner life. I open up about how my own inner world as a child saved my life and use this example to help explain how mindful cultivation of inner lands...

Listen to the Episode
Nov. 11, 2020

"Toxic"

In this episode I talk about why it's so important to find a way to release tension after prolonged periods of stress, and then I discuss our growing use of the word"toxic" to describe people and relationships and how it migh...

Listen to the Episode
Nov. 5, 2020

Crossroads Self-Care

This is a support and self-care episode for the 2020 Election. For survivors this is a time of extreme anxiety, triggers, and symptom flare-ups. It is ok to not be ok! That said, lets talk self-care. At the end I share one of...

Listen to the Episode
Oct. 21, 2020

Stop Sh*tting On Yourself You Beautiful B*tch

This episode takes a look at the negativity we can direct at ourselves, the false beliefs about ourselves that our abusers can leave behind, and how important it is to take notice and root those beliefs out. Y'all better stop...

Listen to the Episode
Sept. 30, 2020

Returning to Your Place of Trauma

How can you tell if returning to your place of trauma will be beneficial? I discuss my own experiences with returning to my place, and share a list of actions you can take to make your return a healing and helpful one. Tw/Cw:...

Listen to the Episode
Sept. 2, 2020

ASMR Moonlit Forest

In this special episode you can adjust your volume, lay down, close your eyes, and join me for a guided healing journey through a beautiful moonlit forest. A circle of ancient trees is waiting to bear witness as the moon grac...

Listen to the Episode
Aug. 12, 2020

Healing Affirmations ~ Season 2

Welcome to Season 2 ! In this episode I revisit the Healing Affirmations that started the podcast in Season 1 and I introduce some new ones. I'm so grateful for all of you! Support the show

Listen to the Episode
July 29, 2020

What Does "Finding OK" Mean? + Grounding and Centering Exercise

I talk a bit about what's behind the name of the podcast, and then walk you through a simple grounding and centering exercise that you can add to your self-care tool kit. Support the show

Listen to the Episode
June 28, 2020

Empowerment Through Activism

I talk about some of the ways activism can help shift the lens of our trauma and help us heal and feel more empowered. I share my experiences attending Take Back the Night marches, the way they helped transform the way I thou...

Listen to the Episode
June 15, 2020

Trauma Anniversaries

This episodes explores Trauma Anniversaries; what they are, how they can affect us, and some ways to get through them. TW/CW: Brief mentions of the following: sexual assault, domestic violence, depression, anxiety, suicide, a...

Listen to the Episode
Sept. 1, 2019

Defeating Intrusive Thoughts

A strategy for defeating negative, intrusive, and potentially triggering thought patterns. This includes personal experience with this practice, a brief explanation of Buddhist Wrathful Deities, and help brainstorming to get ...

Listen to the Episode
Aug. 12, 2019

Olfactory Memory and PTSD

How your sense of smell is tied to memory and how this can affect PTSD symptoms. TW/CW: A non explicit personal experience of a PTSD flashback. Support the show

Listen to the Episode